Health Kick

Dear Fabulously You!

A healthy lifestyle is essential once we reach Fabulously40, a lesson that many of us seem to be slow in learning.

In our 20's and 30's, we could get away with bad food and lifestyle choices. If we didn't get eight hours of sleep at night, it wasn't evident (at least not right away). If we ate or drank too much for a whole week, perhaps we added a pound or two, but not much more. And when decided to go on a diet, the pounds seemed to melt away.

So I ask you, what the heck happened?

At 40+, it seems that anything we do that is not appropriate to our age category takes an immediate toll. I've always had a weight issue -- I would eat, gain weight, diet, lose weight, and then repeat the cycle -- only now it seems worse than ever. I don't think there's a diet I haven't heard of, tried or attempted.

Ironically, I've found that they all work as long as you count your calories. Take in fewer calories than you burn each day and you will loose weight. The challenge, of course, is keeping the weight off. Had I found the answer to that age-old problem I would have been the most celebrated woman on the planet.

Let's face it ladies, we live in a society that preaches that size 0 models are the most beautiful creatures on earth. We hear it, we live it, and worst of all, we teach it to our children. I remember preaching to my daughters to stop eating too much so they will not have my thighs, arms, or derriere.

Find What Works for You

I have finally accepted the fact that as we age, we need to take care of our bodies in a more attentive way. Like it or not, every extra piece of bread we put in our mouths will end on our thighs, arms or somewhere in between. However, that doesn't make it any easier to say no to that freshly buttered croissant and dive into a plate of raw carrots and broccoli instead.

Recently, I came to the conclusion that although there are many ways to eat healthier and take better care of ourselves, the secret is finding out what works best for each individual. After trying countless diets and eating plans, I have discovered that Weight Watchers works best for me. All I need to do is to make it a daily routine. For me, that means going to their meetings, having a workout buddy, and being held accountable for everything that goes into my mouth.

What prompted this sudden revelation?

Every year I gain 10 pounds during the holiday season, and every year I have to deal with the extra weight after the holidays. This year, however, I managed to gain 10 pounds before the holidays even began, and it was downhill from there. Given that the pounds no longer come off as easily as they used to, the time had come to figure out what I need to do in order to stay healthy and vibrant for myself and my loved ones.

Not long ago I scolded my dad to stop smoking and start taking care of himself. When he didn't immediately oblige, I called him selfish. I laid on the "Jewish guilt" hard and thick because, after all, if he gets sick we children have to take care of him. If he chooses to get sick by being careless, that's selfish and unfair.

So -- I am publicly announcing that from today forward I will be very conscious of what I eat and how much I exercise. If I don't take care of myself now, my kids will have to take care of me, which I do not find appealing. I want to be a "cool" grandma, not an old and sick one. For this to happen, I need to have a plan and stick to it.

If you're a regular reader of my blog, you're probably cringing just about now. Another plan??? Just how many plans, programs and guidelines do we need to adhere to? I say as many as possible, as long as the outcome is a positive one.

I call all of you to join me as I embark on the "health kick" at this special stage in my life. I will definitely need your support getting there.

Yours in good health,

Yana

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About Yana Berlin

Yana Berlin is the founder and CEO of www.fabulously40.com, devoted to the celebration of all things, primarily women and the challenges and joys they face juggling their careers, children, relationships, and life's other issues. Fabulously 40.com is a social network for women that catalyzes its members to celebrate and embrace their life. Since launching www.fabulously40.com. Mrs. Berlin has been connecting, and supporting women all over the world. Her unique background as a successful business woman in the field of mortgage finance and the creative arts, coupled with being the mother of four rambunctious teenagers, provides for her distinctive insight into the daily joy, challenges, and circumstances women face today. Mrs. Berlin has published many articles on Fabulously40.com addressing these issues and offering solutions, strategies, and tips on how women can interact with one another to solve any obstacles they face in today's hectic world. Join us as we embark on our journey to the best times of our lives at www.fabulously40.com. Mrs. Berlin resides in San Diego, CA with her husband and children. http://www.fabulously40.com


And here is another random article you might be interested in...

Trading the T4

There is an old expression you may have heard - to 'gild the lilly'. Basically, this means that if something is working fine, don't attempt to 'fix it', or 'improve it'. Chances are you will end up doing more harm than good. Nowhere is this more true than in the cut and thrust arena of stock trading. And nowhere in the world of the financial markets is this more clear than in the release of the so-called 'T4 Trading Strategy'.

Way back in the dim and distant trading past (mid 1990's, in fact!) two VERY successful and famous traders by the names of Linda Bradford Raschke and Larry Connors came up with an extremely simple yet effective trading pattern which became know as the 'Grail' or even the 'Holy Grail' pattern. This, of course, was a tongue in cheek reference to the fact that there is no 'Grail' - simply because no trading system is infallible.

The Grail, being a simple yet effective trading strategy, quickly became popular, mostly due to the free Grail tools available on www.tradestars.com. As a method for taking advantage of a trend (either up or down), the Grail has consistently shown itself to be one of the very best trading strategies out there. No surprise really, given the thoroughbred quality of the strategy's parents.

Then something interesting happened. A number of websites appeared trying to sell variations on the Grail, using 'gung-ho' names such as 'Champion Trader' or 'Powerthrust Method' and so on. What was most interesting about this was not the fact that unscrupulous people were trying to cash in on an established and successful method, but that the 'improvements' these people had added to the basic Grail (usually with '20 years development', 'millions of dollars in R+D' and so on!) had in fact made the strategy MUSH LESS EFFECTIVE.

The latest in this long line of 'improvements' is the so called 'T4 Volume Break Strategy' or the 'T4 Formula', from someone calling himself 'John Evans'. Mr Evans, of course, has other names - 'Shiraz Lakhi' being his previous incarnation. Until recently, Mr Lakshi promoted his 'Grail Clone' strategy, the 'Champion Trader Formula' as an ebook from a number of websites. Inevitably, of course, the fact that this 'improvement' didn't work so well as the original www.tradestars.com Grail Method meant that the collapse of Mr Lakshi's website and business was only to be expected.

And collapse it did, leaving many traders out of pocket and lacking support. Mr Lakshi then resurfaced as 'John Evans', promoting yet another Grail variation, the 'T3 formula'. Traders' websites quickly spotted this, and made life untenable so what does Mr Evans / Lakshi do? Easy! Rename it the 'T4 formula'. Add volume onto it as an improvement, and try to catch yet another batch of newbie traders with a substandard and overpriced methodology. No doubt if spotted yet again, the 'Champion Trader' will rename it the 'T5 formula' and bolt on a moving average cross over, which will probably take the effectiveness of the system even closer to 50 per cent...

The lesson to all this? Don't gild the lilly. If it's working well, just trade it - there is NEVER any need to try for top dollar in order to become a successful trader. Oh, and do your due diligence before you part with any cash! Happy trading!

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